Humans Here and Everywhere

One of my very favorite things to do is say, “It’s like Grand Central Station in here” while standing in Grand Central itself. I’ve told that joke more times than I can count and texted it to friends and family and also posted it online. What could be funnier? I never get tired of telling it; as far as I am concerned, that joke never gets old. In the fall of 2025, though, when I was in Grand Central for the express purposed of visiting the fabled Dear New York exhibit, I didn’t make it once. Because during the two weeks that the massive photography show was hosted there, it didn’t resemble Grand Central as closely as usual. It more nearly resembled a cathedral to humanity, and all of the commuters and visitors became its joyful acolytes.

Perhaps you were able to see it yourself last October in the city; it was the largest scale public art exhibit in New York since The Gates wound their way through Central Park, exactly 20 years earlier. But Dear New York was set entirely indoors, underground along the tracks of the MTA subway trains and of the Metro North commuter lines, above ground in the vaunted spaces of Vanderbilt Hall and the Main Concourse. For the span of the two-week—long exhibit, there was no advertising to be found anywhere in those places, only the portraits of New Yorkers on the walls and turnstiles. 

They were an amazing sight to behold, the sea of faces floating above another sea of faces, New Yorkers for as far as the eye could see. Each of these portraits was taken by photographer Brandon Stanton, who in 2010 set out to take what he called “a photographic census of the city.” In the intervening years, by all measures, he has succeeded, photographing more that 10,000 New Yorkers in all. Over the course of his amazing career, he has also helped raise tens of millions of dollars for the subjects he has photographed, putting names to their faces and telling their stories.

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Patron Saint of Forgiveness

As difficult as it is for me to believe, this September marks the 25th anniversary of 9/11. One of the people we lost that day was Mychal Judge, the late New York City Fire Department Chaplain and a Catholic priest. Like so many New Yorkers are, Fr. Judge was an iconoclast. Despite having taken a vow of celibacy, he was a gay man in a long-term relationship with an active AIDS ministry. He also had a curious habit of going to FDNY celebrations and proclaiming to all the firefighters there (and anyone else who happened to be present), “All your sins are forgiven!” By widespread account, he said it with real feeling and deep conviction.

Fr. Judge had repeatedly been told to stop that public practice, since as a priest, he was beholden to Catholic sacrament of reconciliation, which required individuals to make their confession and perform penance. But he persisted in it, explaining that he never wanted a single firefighter to doubt forgiveness itself. His last FDNY event was the last for several others attending it as well, and at it, he again declared: “All your sins are forgiven!” Not too long afterwards, he became the first certified mortality at the World Trade Center; the photo of first responders carrying the chaplain’s body out of the North Tower soon appeared in news outlets around the world.

In the years since his death, many have lobbied for his canonization as a matryr for the faithful. Fr. Judge did not evacuate the tower when he was told to do so because he knew that there were injured firefighters inside who would want to receive last rites, as an assurance that they had been granted the absolution of sin and the blessing of apostolic pardon. The seriousness of his commitment to extending others forgiveness was such that he would run in to a burning building to promise it to them. Although the lobbying for Fr. Judge has continued a couple of decades now, there is still no official cause for his sainthood in the Roman Catholic church. 

Whether Fr. Judge will eventually be sainted remain an open question, but whether he himself was saintly seems to me a question that has already been decided. These days, we could all use a patron saint of forgiveness. We live in particularly unforgiving times. 

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